SERMON NOTES

The Talk

Fight!

Text: Song of Solomon 5:2-6, 9

It is impossible to escape  in our lives. 

While conflict is , it doesn't have to be .

The goal with conflict isn't , it's .

Conflict is inevitable, but  conflict is .

. Proverbs 18:21

How different would our relationships be if we had a 5 to 1 ratio of  to  comments?

Attack the  not the . Proverbs 27:6

. James 1:19

Truly listening requires attempted . 

Surround yourself  with people who  your marriage.

For the health of your marriage, in every area not just healthy conflict, you need to surround yourself with people who are going to fight FOR your , not AGAINST your .

. Ephesians 4:32

Unless we are in the place that our spouse has committed an offense so great that the blood of Jesus can't cover it, we can't hold our