Open, respectful communication is an important ingredient in a healthy parent-child relationship. Research shows that building open, respectful communication with our kids can help prevent mental health issues and behavioral struggles. But, how do we encourage our children to share their thoughts and feelings with us? How do we build stronger connections with our children? Join Geoffrey and Sarah Turner as they sit down with their daughters, Berkley and Ellie, for a heartfelt "parent evaluation" to strengthen their connection. Here's to building stronger connections with our children as we tune into thier desires, dreams, and fears to foster empathy and compassion in our parent-child relationships!
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LET’S BE FRIENDS!
HOST:
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Geoffrey Turner: Instagram | Facebook
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SHOW NOTES:
Questions
· What can I do to be a better parent to you?
· Do you feel like I listen well?
· What do I do that you don’t like?
· What rules are confusing or do you think we should revisit?
· What goal can we set as a family?
· What do you like/dislike about being in our family?
· What are the biggest challenges you’re facing?
· How can we make our family more fun?
· What things are you excited about?
· Is there anything I can help you with?
· Do you feel as if I understand you?
· What’s a memory that makes you happy?
· What do I do that makes you feel loved?
· How would you describe our family?
These are questions that you can ask your children at any time, anyplace. But you might get more detailed responses if you pick a time and location when your youngster is attentive, at ease, and not in a rush. Additionally, the less distractions, the better. These conversations can take place in a variety of settings, such as the dinner table, bedtime, car journeys, and lines or appointments where you have your child's undivided attention.
Discussion starters that are likely to spark interest include things like their hobbies, interests, friends, and pop culture. Ask them questions about their interests, such as superheroes, soccer, painting, or the piano. Examples include "What do you wish would happen if..." , "What do you think would happen if…" , "What would you do…" , "How could we…" , along with "Why do you think…."
If your youngster seems uninterested in answering your questions at first, don't panic. Additionally, don't go on to another one too soon or hurry them to respond. Allowing your youngster to speak at their own pace demonstrates your genuine interest in their thoughts and opinions rather than just making automatic inquiries.
